If you often worry what others think about you, then you’re wasting precious time.

And you shouldn’t have to do that any longer, if you keep some simple principles in mind.

It’s fine to respect everyone’s personal opinions. But when you stop caring what other people think, and what their opinions of you may be, you’re not afraid of being yourself.  

With a bit of added confidence, you can become fearless. Let’s talk about how to stop caring what people think.

How To Stop Caring What People Think

Why Do I Care What Other People Think?

For one, approval from others gives us a higher sense of self-esteem and self-confidence.

We’ve convinced ourselves that their recognition matters to our self-worth, and how we value ourselves. Seeking approval from others may be inevitable, but problems arise depending on how far one goes.

Is it Possible to Stop Caring What Others Think?

For most of us, it’s unrealistic to never care about what others think.

But you can surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are, and won’t make you feel judged. You then can decide for yourself who you may turn to for advice and external approval.

How to Not Care What People Think

• Think for yourself.
• Consider the source.
• Stop looking for advice from everyone.
• Other people’s opinions are not your reality.
• Stop comparing yourself to others, and stop judging others.
• Believe in yourself. Avoid second guessing everything you do.
• Keep perspective. Focus on what matters.
• Don’t try to mind read, because you’re probably wrong.
• Focus on yourself, practice self-acceptance.
• Don’t try to please everyone.
• Stop over-thinking.

What is it Called When You Care Too Much About What Others Think?

Social anxiety disorder can include feelings of a persistent fear of being watched or judged by others. This fear can affect work, school, relationships, and other daily activities. Social anxiety disorder is treatable.

Why Do I Worry So Much About Everything?

If you’re excessively worried about things, you may have a type of anxiety disorder called generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). GAD can make daily life feel like a constant state of worry, fear, and dread. Treatment is available for sufferers.

Should You Care What Others Think of You?

Yes, it’s ok to be aware of and care about what others’ reactions to you may be. But if you put too much value on trying to please others, then it’s time to look at strengthening your own self-confidence.

How Do You Stop Worrying About Something?

• Practice meditation.
• Deep breathing exercises.
• Share your fears with friends or family.
• Keep perspective.
• Practice gratitude.
• Keep a consistent sleep schedule.

Final Thoughts

Despite the common perception, people can’t make you feel a certain way about yourself. Remember that you don’t have to live up to others’ opinions.

Accept and expect that people will have opinions of you.  But take back control over your own feelings, develop your sense of self, and build up your self-confidence.

Not caring so much anymore about other people’s opinions is a skill we hone over time, and it seems to come naturally to some of us as we age.

I wish you well, tell me your stories related to this or if it’s something you’ve been able to achieve.

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